Bargaining salary is just negotiation with a different word. The playbook:
Step 1: Wait for the offer
Don't bargain before you have one. Pre-offer salary discussions are recruiter screens — give a range, but real bargaining starts after they've decided to hire you.
Step 2: Anchor with data
Pull comp data for your role, level, and location:
- Glassdoor, Levels.fyi, Pave
- 1-2 conversations with people in similar roles
- Recent offers at this company (Levels.fyi often has them)
Know your range — bottom (walk-away) and top (aspirational).
Step 3: Counter once
"Thanks for the offer. Based on my research and other conversations, I was hoping for $X. What flexibility do you have?"
Specific number. Anchored. Then stop talking.
Step 4: If base is fixed, bargain on other items
- Sign-on bonus
- Equity / RSU size
- Annual bonus target
- Vacation
- Start date
- Remote work
- Relocation
- Title
Some of these are easier wins than base.
Step 5: Get it in writing
Once you have a yes, ask for the updated offer letter. Re-read carefully. Then accept.
Common scripts
Buy time:
"Thanks — I'm excited. Can I have a couple of days to review and follow up?"
Counter:
"Based on my research, I was hoping for $X. Is there flexibility on the base?"
Push for non-base:
"Understood on the base. Is there room on sign-on or equity?"
Close:
"That works for me. Could you send the revised offer letter?"
What kills it
- Negotiating before the offer.
- No research backing your counter.
- Three or more counters.
- Negativity (every word should be excited about the role).
- Bluffing about offers you don't have.
When to walk
- The offer is below your walk-away number and they hold firm.
- The negotiation feels coercive (rare but happens).
- You realize the role isn't right and you were only negotiating reflexively.
The bigger pattern
Negotiation is a small skill that compounds. A 10% raise on $120K is $12K/year — over 4 years, $48K. The 30-minute conversation that wins it is high-leverage time.
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Frequently Asked Questions
- What's the difference between bargaining and negotiating?
- Same thing in this context. Both refer to the back-and-forth that follows an offer.
- How much should I counter?
- 10-20% above the initial offer is standard, anchored with research. Adjust based on how the offer compares to market data.
- Should I bargain over email or phone?
- Phone or video for the actual counter; email to follow up and get the new offer in writing.
- What if I have no leverage?
- Even without a competing offer, you have the leverage of walking. Negotiate from confidence, not desperation. The worst case is they hold firm and you accept the original offer.